I tried to join the Flute Society in Saint Louis, but there were several reasons I did not renew.
1. I was the only Jazz player in the whole bunch, and everyone thought I was a doubler. (Major Snob Factor!)
2. Most of the members a teenage white girls. I am a 40 year old black man.(I dont even have to explain that one.)
3. People did not like the brands of flutes I play on.(Major Snobb Factor)
4. Classical flute players/teachers in Saint Louis are just plain Snobby!
5. My flute teacher died of cancer.
I remember going to a flute festival, and one of the local flute players said something like "That flute is not like that cheap sh** you play on. Are you sure you can play it?" The funny this was, this person did not know who I was, or ever heard me play. Then had the nerve to call me a sax player.( I have a million of these stories!) Things definitely changed after she heard me play.(Classical of course!) Do you think that SNOB admitted she was wrong...nope.
Due to conditions beyond my control, I never renewed, and was never asked to. It must feel great to fit in

I have accepted the fact that some contacts work better over internet forums
Phineas