
I've been playing the flute for about eight years, and I picked it up relatively fast; By now I'm first chair in the highest band at my high school and I've won several competitions and have been in regionals the past 3 years. Ever since high school my best friends have also been in band, not surprisingly, and two of my best friends are also flautists. I've been getting concerned lately because I noticed that they can both double tongue and I can't, sadly...
It seemed to just come naturally to them, and they do it with no problem, but I've tried numerous times to learn and I always end up getting frustrated with myself and just stopping. Which brings me to the problem that i've started to realize: I don't tongue the way everyone else does, I don't even think I use my tongue at all. I don't say "tu tu tu," it's more like "huh huh huh," even though it sounds basically the same as normal tonguing would. I'm thinking this is the reason I simply can't learn to double tongue (but i've developed a ridiculously fast single tongue to compensate for it...

I don't know if i'll ever be able to learn double tonguing without completely relearning the flute and starting from scrach. The frustrating thing is, I'm doing lots of pieces that require double tonguing and I have to slow them down to my single tongue pace... like right now, i'm working on Faure's Fantaisie Op. 79. It's supposed to be about 121, and i have to play it at 100. That's also because I have problems learning very fast runs. It's like my fingers just won't do it... I know that you're supposed to take everything way down in tempo and practice it a thousand times really slow, but I'm not a patient person.
Any tips? :/